Thank you for addressing this important topic of pornography and marriage.

I am very grateful to God that my husband was raised by a God-fearing father and mother and that he has never viewed pornography.  I know this is very rare nowadays.

However, our marriage has grown tremendously because of the teaching of the marital debt which must be paid generously.  Wives, be generous to your husbands.  Husbands, be patient, kind and selfless with your wives in all things.

Regarding healing from past sexual sin, I have seen many couples benefit from a devotion to the Precious Blood and the Rosary. Praying the rosary with fervor and devotion will heal the brain damage incurred by pornography. There have been studies done. (Perhaps someone knows the source of this; I heard it in a sermon while on vacation).  Asking the Precious Blood to wash over us, heal us, and cover all our wounds and insecurities is also quite powerful.

We must remember that the health of our marriage has a great impact on all of society, whether we realize it or not.