Forgiving a Mother
I ONCE had a friend many years ago who was raising her daughter alone. She had made terrible mistakes in life. But my friend, whom I met at work, had brought her daughter into the world, was working hard to support her without much help from others and despite being surrounded by bad influences.
She always spoke so affectionately of her daughter and with such concern for her welfare. When they were together she showed her great tenderness and affection.
Her daughter was about 11 to 13 years old when I knew them and her life was obviously lonely. She had no siblings, no father at home and her mother worked at nights. Different babysitters came to be with her in those hours.
Despite all the difficulties, there seemed to be a strong bond with her mother, who worked so hard, and the daughter seemed cheerful and happy.
I guess that is why I was shocked years later when I learned she had moved thousands of miles away as an adult and was estranged from her mother because of resentment over her past. How could this be? (more…)
