A Mother’s Immodesty — and an Unforgettable Scene
BUCK writes:
I have an anecdote that I have never told. I don’t know if it damaged me, but it has always bothered me. My memory of it was prompted by a video of an attractive female reporter, wearing skin-tight black stretch pants, interviewing a male on the street in France on the ongoing immigrant rape culture.
I was thinking about it while driving from my home in Maryland to take care of my 92-year-old mother, who is in a rehab facility in Myrtle Beach, South Carolina, since she fell and broke her hip. We were not close. I’ve talked to her more in the last two years than in the previous sixty.
At about age eleven, like any normal boy, I was not the least bit aware of my own mother’s sexuality. It didn’t exist.
My parents had recently begun to fight, and constantly. I was bewildered by it and I had no idea what was going on, why or what was going to happen. I still don’t know much for sure. Neither of them ever explained or have ever even mentioned it. I mean the divorce. Not sure that they could. I never talked about it with my older sister or my older brother, then or ever. (more…)





