The Balance Myth, cont.
July 17, 2013
MRS. C. writes:
I just finished reading your post, The Balance Myth, and it rang so true I didn’t know whether to laugh or cry. I was raised in the ’70s, when a woman was encouraged to bring home the bacon, fry it up in a pan and never let her husband forget he’s a man. My mother decided to “have it all” and went back to work when I was 11 and my brother 9, even though my father made enough for us all to live comfortably. For the rest of our childhood we were latchkey kids, raised by part-time parents and whatever was on cable TV. We knew not to bother our parents when they came home from work as they were often tired and short-tempered with us. My mother continued to do the family’s laundry and cooking, but was put upon to do any household chore and endlessly complained about these duties.