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Hanson on First Ladies

April 19, 2012

 

ACCORDING to Victor Davis Hanson at National Review Online, Hilary Rosen’s recent criticism of Ann Romney for being a mother who does not work was improper. Rosen’s comments were wrong, according to this supposed conservative, not because they were an attack on the institution of the family, but because wives of presidential candidates should not be judged unless they put forth a specific political platform of their own. Read More »

 

More on Romney’s Feminist Passion

April 19, 2012

 

IN a piece at National Review Online, Heather Mac Donald laments Romney’s craven appeals to feminists,  a theme I discussed here last week. She writes:

Even if the women’s vote existed (Ramesh shows it to be largely a phantom), it would not be a good strategy to pursue it — at least as that pursuing is conventionally done. The distortions inflicted by delusional feminist grievance on this country’s core institutions — from workplaces to universities and the family — is enormous. Read More »

 

How to Dissolve a Culture, One Couple at a Time

April 18, 2012

 

N.W. writes:

The “Childless by Choice Project” was recently the subject of an NPR feature. The project is the brainchild (presumably the only child) of Laura Scott, who in 2003 happened to be perusing Madelyn Cain’s book, “The Childless Revolution.” Intrigued by the idea that there really might be such a revolution, Mrs. Scott decided to travel the country to talk to the common everyperson and find out why so many married couples had decided to forgo having children. From this journey came a blog, a book, a documentary, and a FB group all concerned with couples who have decided to live child-free. Here is her story.

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The Truth about Natural Family Planning

April 18, 2012

 

HERE is an excellent 2001 piece by Charlotte Hayes about the history, science and effectiveness of Natural Family Planning (NFP), with a long bibliography for further reading.

Hayes reports that, according to a 1994 study, the rate of “accidental pregnancies” in couples using NFP was around two to three percent in the first year. Divorce rates are extremely low among NFP couples.

Synthetic hormones are linked to increase rates of heart attacks and breast cancer. Also, there is some evidence that sperm reduces depression in women, providing an argument against condom use.

Why is NFP not actively recommended by the Obama administration, given its extreme concern for the affordability of contraception? NFP costs virtually nothing. And, in a world where organic chickens are considered morally superior to chickens raised on chemical feed, why is the Organic Woman so rare?

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Marine Le Pen on the Future of France

April 18, 2012

 

AT GalliaWatch, Tiberge translates portions of a recent interview with French presidential candidate Marine Le Pen, who answers question on the rise of Islam in France and the preservation of French sovereignty and culture. The interview is posted here and here. Tiberge writes:

Marine is indeed a voice in the wilderness, but one that can no longer be denied. Even those who question her here are visibly impressed. She is definitely here to stay. As I said in a comment recently, Marine has won the election, no matter who wins. Read More »

 

Ordinary Morning; Extraordinary Sight

April 17, 2012

 

 

A Grateful Reader writes:

At ten fifteen this morning, we heard a roar in the air. It was the right time, but not the right place. Our neighborhood was not on the scheduled flight path. Hopefully, my son ran to the door, and we followed him into the front yard. Looking up, we saw the space shuttle Discovery perched atop the 747 accompanied by a military jet. Time stood still. Flying slowly and low directly along our suburban street, they nearly touched the tops of the trees. Read More »

 

The Pyramid of Self

April 17, 2012

Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs

JEFF W. writes:

Sheryl Sandberg’s life may seem loveless and Godless, but she, of course, is part of a larger culture that devalues love and values “self-actualization.”

University-trained modern Americans are taught that love is a chemical reaction of short duration. Universities do not teach that there is an eternal love that comes from God and that the Holy Spirit pours into human hearts. Read More »

 

Facebook Executive Says Women Should Marry Women

April 16, 2012

 

IN an astounding series of videos at Makers.com, Facebook COO Sheryl Sandberg speaks of the life of a woman executive and the importance of closing “the ambition gap.”

“We’re not making progress at the top,” she says. Women are not achieving enough in the work world because they concede to antiquated standards. As for herself, it’s important for her to leave her children every day. That way, Facebook can “touch more people.”

The perfect way for a woman to balance work and family, Sandberg said, is to marry a woman. She married a man (well, actually two of them), but that’s only because he (her second husband) was a person who was willing to do 50 percent of the housework and childcare. “If you marry a man, find the right one,” she said. “If you can marry a woman, that’s better because the split of two women in the home is better, the data shows.”

Sandberg, who is Facebook’s chief of operations, presents the familiar feminist vision of revolutionizing society and the basic nature of men and women. Men should feel as guilty as women when they leave their children under someone else’s care. Women should run half society’s institutions and men should run half the homes.

“We still live among expectations regarding childbearing even among modern families …. that the woman is default in charge [of childcare] … and if the woman is default in charge,” she is not going to achieve as much as a man.

Sandberg said she is ashamed to admit she leaves work at 5:30 every day, ashamed not because she gives her children too little time but because it suggests to others that she does not work enough. “I walk out of this office every day at 5:30 so I’m home for dinner with my kids at 6, and interestingly, I’ve been doing that since I had kids. … I would say it’s not until the last year, two years that I’m brave enough to talk about it publicly,” she said.

She returns to her work e-mail after dinner.

She tells young women:  “Be ambitious. The world is still run by men.”

“Lean into your careers. Don’t make sacrifices now for children you don’t even have yet because that almost guarantees that you won’t have a job worth staying for.” She said she was shocked when  interviewing a female job candidate to learn the woman was concerned about overworking even though she didn’t have a boyfriend yet.

She said women should not care what other people think about their lives, as she once did when she was criticized for divorcing her first husband. “You can’t live by what other people think.”

Interestingly, Sandberg is against corporate affirmative action for women. There’s probably a good reason for this. She’s a CEO. She doesn’t want to be forced to hire women – who take maternity leaves and want to leave work at 5:30 – either. Sandberg, however, was probably at some point a beneficiary of affirmative action.

Sandberg, who worked for the Treasury Department under the Clinton administration and for Google, is clearly an ambitious and aggressive woman and yet she ends many of her points with the familiar, apologetic interrogative that is common among young women today. It’s a brilliant performance.

Sandberg does not, however, address the most important question of all: Why? Why should women value the life of a corporate drudge, even the life of a very powerful one?

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Eastern Christians Celebrate Amid Threats of Violence

April 15, 2012

 

DANIEL S. writes:

Unlike Roman Catholics, who celebrated Easter last Sunday, the Eastern and Coptic Orthodox Christians of the Arab world celebrated Easter today. It is a powerful sight to see these scattered and increasingly persecuted Christians cling so strongly to their faith and tradition, unlike so many of their lukewarm, decedent counterparts in the West. Read More »

 

The Phony Choices of Mainstream Feminism

April 15, 2012

 

AT VFR, Lawrence Auster perfectly summarizes the emptiness of the typical liberal formula regarding the place of women in society, a formula embraced by Democrats and Republicans alike. He writes:

I’ve now looked at more columns on the Rosen / Romney issue, and it appears that, contrary to the first paragraph of the entry, conservatives were criticizing Rosen for attacking stay-at-home mothers, not just for insulting Ann Romney. However, it remains the case that the Republican side is terribly confused and compromised on this issue. Read More »

 

Leftist vs. Liberal Mormon

April 15, 2012

 

PAUL writes:

Thank you for your tireless efforts against liberalism.

Traditionalists should vote for Obama if the election is close. If Romney is expected to win, traditionalists should stay home. Before the demographics destroy America, there needs to be a political war that sees traditionalists left with something. Romney is a spineless manager: no more, no less. Obama will serve up the revolution. Read More »

 

Women and Children First

April 15, 2012

 

John Jacob Astor IV, who died on the Titanic

FEMINISM views history as one long male conspiracy against women. Misogyny, we are told, was omnipresent in society in the past. However, when we look closely at history, we find not opposition to women so much as deference to them, not rights denied so much as privileges embodied and enforced in law, customs and manners.

When property laws forbade married women to hold property in their own names, the sense of male responsibility for female welfare was so strong that men were held liable for the criminal acts and debts of their wives.

One of the most famous examples of male deference is, of course, the Titanic, which sank 100 years ago today. The next time a feminist says that everything must change to make up for past discrimination, say: “What about the Titanic? Is that the sort of discrimination you mean?”

Almost 70 percent of the people on the Titanic died, including more than 100 women, but the rescued were overwhelmingly women and children. Men, because of the size of the crew, were far more numerous on the ship, but still strongly disfavored when loading the lifeboats. As Lawrence Auster writes, “[T]he crew and the male passengers were so assiduous in following the rule of “women and children first,” that many lifeboats left the Titanic with empty seats. Many more people died than was necessary, because, far from pushing each other out of the way, people (i.e. men) willingly died in conformity with the moral code of that time.”

Among second class passengers, 86 percent of the women were saved, and eight percent of the men. Ninety-seven percent of the first class women lived while 33 percent of the men did. (Wikipedia provides a complete chart here.)

Among the men who perished was Father Thomas Byles. (His interesting story can be found at fatherbyles.com.) Read More »

 

Obama Has Fulfilled His Racial Vision

April 13, 2012

 

IN AN excellent piece at American Thinker, Lauri B. Regan writes:

The Obama administration’s empowerment of black rebellion began at the very start of his presidency, has grown exponentially since then, and can be seen in all sorts of machinations across the country. Read More »

 

More Obscene Photos on the Internet

April 13, 2012

 

Piccadilly Circus, 1959

THESE are shocking photos of London in 1959, a city without tattooed grandmothers, denim, purple hair, men with earrings in their noses and angry foreigners. Thankfully, we do not live in that age, a time when women were held in chains, children had to sit up straight at the dinner table and Britons wallowed in primitive racial homogeneity. I offer these pictures purely for documentary purposes. Please view them when children are not in the room.

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Why Rosen’s Remark Was Significant

April 13, 2012

 

FITZGERALD writes:

Your comment that the Democrats are sitting on a “powder keg” because liberal attitudes and policies have forced women into the full-time workforce is spot on.

There is a quiet groaning across society from women who feel they must work to be valuable. The having-it-all lie in particular has them trapped. Women are highly susceptible to peer pressure and the feminist overlords have been able to perpetuate a web of lies that has trapped a large majority of women into wage slavery and abandonment of their families, with a resulting quiet desperation and longing for a loss most can’t quite place entirely. Read More »

 

Hilary Rosen: Role Model for Women Everywhere

April 12, 2012

 

 

DIANA writes:

Hilary Rosen,  the Democratic strategist in the news for insulting Ann Romney and non-employed mothers, is a lesbian. The Catholic League pointed this out and Forbes magazine has slammed them for it. Here is a Washington Post profile of her. She has two adopted children and is separated from her girlfriend. What a great mom. Read More »

 

Pizza Hut Denies Americans Important Innovation

April 12, 2012

 

THE Hot Dog Stuffed Crust Pizza has been officially introduced, but in Great Britain only. Call Pizza Hut today and complain. While you’re at it, ask about the possibility of a French Fry Stuffed Crust Pizza for vegetarians.

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Democratic Strategist Attacks Ann Romney for Not “Working”

April 12, 2012

 

HILARY ROSEN, a Democratic Party strategist, said yesterday that Mitt Romney can’t possibly have women’s economic interests at heart because his wife has “never worked a day in her life.” The Huffington Post reports:

“Guess what?” Rosen said. “His wife has actually never worked a day in her life. She’s never really dealt with the kinds of economic issues that a majority of the women in this country are facing.”

Rosen continued, “There’s something much more fundamental about Mitt Romney. He seems so old-fashioned when it comes to women, and I think that comes across, and I think that that’s going to hurt him over the long term. He just doesn’t really see us as equal.” Read More »