Is College Necessary for Women?
CHRISTINE writes:
A recent comment you made has had me wondering. It was in the post “The Have-It-All Mentality”:
“Part of the importance of college today is also that it is a place for young people to meet, and parents know that. Therefore they have to spend big bucks for their daughters to attend college and their daughters must make big bucks to send their own daughters to college someday.”
I know this was the case for me. I graduated from college five years ago. Had it not been for the (extracurricular) experiences I had there, the people I met, and the ideas I was exposed to (all of which were discovered on my own and completely unconnected with my courses or any actual effort of the university, but which were irrefutably tied up with the college “environment”), I should be a very different person now. And I did, in fact, meet my husband there as well. For these reasons – even despite the horrible debt it left me with – I will never say that I regret going. But is this really what college should be? The bachelors’ degree and teaching certificate which I was “officially” there for only got used for a short time before I left the working world and got married. And I knew all along that should I end up getting married, that’s what I wanted to do. (more…)

