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December 27, 2010

 

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The Snow Storm (1859), William Morris Hunt

Announced by all the trumpets of the sky,
Arrives the snows, and driving o’er the fields,
Seems nowhere to alight: the whited air
Hides hills and woods, the river and the heaven,
And veils the farm-house at the garden’s end.

                                             Ralph Waldo Emerson, “The Snow-Storm”

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The Sanity of Love

December 26, 2010

 

DIANA writes:

I’m sorry to bother you with so many e-mails so suddenly, but the post about suffering and how people write to you really touched me. Here is my story. I leave a lot out, of course.

My oldest brother is 12 years older than I am. He’s schizophrenic. I can hardly remember him as a normal young man, but I do have some memories. For most of my life, he’s been a terrible burden and a shame. He is subject to fits of rage and violence. (I had a lot of therapy sessions devoted to dealing with this. They all boiled down to: forget about him and save yourself.)

But the bedrock of his personality is an overwhelming sweetness. He’s actually the sweetest person in my family. I’m not just an addled family member who can’t see the bad in her brother. It’s true. He’s a sweetheart. He couldn’t believe that 9/11 was caused by terrorists. I called him afterwards to calm him down. He was fine. “No one would do that on purpose!” he said to me. Read More »

 

Homosexual Marriage and the Brave New World of Reproduction

December 26, 2010

 

DIANA WRITES:

So Joe Biden says that “same-sex marriage” is inevitable. Well, we shall see about that. Do you remember the Equal Rights Amendment? That too was inevitable, but under the passionate generalship of Phyllis Schlafly, it died.

But let’s think about the consequences if a distracted and beaten-down public is unable to summon enough opposition to homosexual marriage. Did you know that there is something called “a right to reproduce”? And that intellectuals have written articles in law reviews about this? This boils down to homosexuals changing laws to foster surrogacy, and to throw money into more “ART” – assisted reproductive techniques that might enable homosexual couples to bear children who are genetically their own. Read More »

 

A Christmas Gift Gone Awry

December 26, 2010

 

MY AUNT MARY, who is now 80was stunningly beautiful when she was younger. She had golden hair that she kept long and rolled into a French twist at the back of her head. The sunny yellow of her hair complimented her fair skin perfectly. When her hair began to gray, she started to color it herself to keep it blonde and she continued to wear it in the exact same elegant style. Her hair was obviously very important to her. She once told me she did not swim in the pool in her backyard because the chlorine would destroy her coloring. Read More »

 

A Definition of Pessimism

December 26, 2010

 

PESSIMISM is not in being tired of evil but in being tired of good. Despair does not lie in being weary of suffering, but in being weary of joy. It is when for some reason or other good things in a society no longer work that the society begins to decline; when its food does not feed, when its cures do not cure, when its blessings refuse to bless.

                                                           — G. K. Chesterton, The Everlasting Man 

 

To Hell with the Father

December 26, 2010

 

BRISTOL PALIN has purchased a house in Arizona and reportedly is planning to attend Arizona State University. Presumably, she will be taking her young son with her, moving him thousands of miles from his father, or perhaps she will be leaving her son thousands of miles away. When Bristol’s pregnancy was announced to the world, conservatives jumped to defend the Palins. Bristol did not have an abortion and that was enough evidence of family values. But the Palins have allowed Bristol to become a symbol of all that is wrong with single motherhood in America.

 

How Men End up with Feminist Wives

December 26, 2010

 

NORA writes:

Emily D.’s story is indeed very sad. In my experience, however, hardcore feminists are pretty outspoken about it, or they express opinions and attitudes that give away their position quite clearly to those around them. Didn’t her husband observe any of these characteristics when they were dating? I find it hard to believe that her attitude was a total surprise to him. Either she had certain extraordinary qualities (great physical beauty, perhaps) or, more likely, offered certain “benefits” that he valued so much at the time that he was willing to overlook her extreme feminism. Read More »

 

Merry Christmas

December 25, 2010

 

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The Nativity, Giorgione; 1507

 

What Do Herbie Hancock, BMW and Benedictine Monks Have in Common?

December 24, 2010

 

THE REV. James Jackson writes:

I’m a Benedictine Oblate of Clear Creek, and there have been some interesting articles written about Clear Creek over the years. But this one, from The Current, an alternative magazine in Oklahoma, takes some kind of prize:

This is my favorite bit:

“Clear Creek is an intriguing fusion of contemplative ‘island,’ nature enclave and forest encampment. I am fascinated, like many baby boomers, by kinetic, intensely dedicated communities, companies and other ventures with strong missions, a laser-like focus and iconoclastic cultures: NASA’s hugely successful Jet Propulsion Labs (JPL), game changer Apple, Inc., the Teach for America operation, Herbie Hancock’s music shop, Elon Musk’s Tesla Motors, BMW, the film company Pixar, and Burt Rutan’s aerospace design shop come to mind. Clear Creek, to me, is another instance of this kind of collective rigor, discipline and focus.” 

I have great hope for the monastic life as being able to turn this mess around.
 
Merry Christmas to you!
 

A Feminist in the Family

December 24, 2010

 

EMILY D. writes:

My husband and I are always sad when I go to my brother’s home. My sister-in-law is the typical “modern woman” and her marriage to my brother is a microcosm of the feminist absurdity you write about. She never cooks, and as a result her son is a very poor eater and is overweight, even though he is only three. Read More »

 

Letters from the Living

December 24, 2010

 

SINCE I began this website, I have received a number of eloquent, personal notes from readers. These moving letters described serious personal suffering.  A middle-aged woman wrote of her marriage, one hellish experience after another, and her decision to avoid divorce. A man told me of a woman who had cruelly slighted him and belittled his expression of affection after their romance had ended. Fifty years old and divorced, expecting to live alone and never have another romance for the rest of his life, he was not bitter, just exhausted. A female reader wrote about her lifelong depression and poverty. She had begun to go to church by herself at the age of 10 because her parents were non-believers. A man wrote of serious illness.

I did not post any of these notes, even when readers gave me permission to, because they were too poignant and intimate. The best I could do was privately express consolation. Modern life is crushingly impersonal. Professionals will listen to you for a fee and provide a diagnosis. But there is often nowhere to rest your head. There is no place to cry for a few minutes.

I am praying for you this Christmas Eve. I have not forgotten your notes. Suffering is never wasted if we listen to what it has to say.

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Is Christmas Just a Pagan Feast?

December 22, 2010

 

SEE these comments at VFR. Daniel H. from Seattle writes:

Triumphant secularists love to point out that the timing of Christmas was melded with pagan celebrations of the winter solstice, as if that proved Christmas to be a fraud. But this, of course, is an impossibly juvenile response. Why is Christmas associated with the winter solstice, and not, say, the autumnal equinox or some other random astrological phenomenon? Because it is central to the Christian story that in darkest night, a light is born. It is the central theme of the Christian ethos. This idea is so central to all of Western society (thanks to Christianity), that even the most inane Hollywood schlock movie relies on that theme. It resonates with even the most degraded secularist because it is (a) oddly familiar for reasons he doesn’t understand, and (b) oddly true for reasons he refuses to acknowledge.

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Chanticleer

December 22, 2010

 
An early photo of Chanticleer

An early photo of Chanticleer

THE all-male choral ensemble Chanticleer, of San Francisco, performs Charles Ives’ “A Christmas Carol.”  This is from the group’s excellent album, Sing We Christmas.

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A Christmas Accident

December 21, 2010

 

SEVEN YEARS AGO, my husband went out on Christmas Eve to pick up some clothes at the dry cleaners. About an hour after he left, a large police cruiser pulled into our driveway. The moment before I saw my husband get out of the vehicle was sickening. I thought they had come to tell me of his death.

But he emerged from the cruiser. His head was cut up. He was shaken and he had large shopping bags in his hands. Here is the story of his adventure. Read More »

 

A Fairy Tale Wedding

December 21, 2010

  

FORTUNATELY, there has been some backlash against the article in Sunday’s weddings section of The New York Times about Carol Anne Riddell and John Partilla, a New York couple who met at their childrens’ school and married after leaving their first spouses. There are many harsh remarks, as well as some comments defending the couple, in the comments section after the initial article. New York Magazine has a critical item, in which the groom regrets the publicity. One wonders if anyone has thought to contact the former spouses and ask what their reaction was when they opened a leading newspaper to find a glowing tribute to the affair that ruined their home lives. It would be similar to opening the paper and reading a glowing interview of a kidnapper who had taken your child.

The Happy Couple on their wedding day

The Happy Couple on their wedding day

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More Thoughts on Race

December 20, 2010

 

A regular reader writes:

I really enjoyed your post on race.

I think the people who complained about your entries on rape statistics (here and here) are missing the point. There are two basic groups in humanity: those who want to adapt to reality, and those who want all decisions to be subjective because they fear oversight. Read More »

 

The Definition of a Non-Feminist

December 20, 2010

 

IT  appears to be increasingly common for women to superficially disavow feminism. That means, when asked if they are feminist, they say, “No, I’m not a feminist.” But saying so doesn’t necessarily make it so. I can say I don’t notice cold weather, but if I wear a coat, obviously I do.

What does it take for a woman not to be a feminist? She must explicitly and publicly reject feminist principles. Read More »

 

The War Against Warriors

December 20, 2010

 

THE REPEAL this weekend of Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell is a further step in the reckless feminization of our military forces. How can men cultivate the traits necessary for combat and at the same time condone open effeminacy in their ranks or fight alongside women, as was recently recommended by a Congressional panel? Common sense tells us they cannot. 

As Lawrence Auster writes:

The country is about to embark, completely unnecessarily, on an insane experiment that will cause no end of problems for years or decades to come, turn the military into a sexual and litigious battleground between homosexuals and straights, and discourage the enlistment of capable men who will not want to serve in such a decadent Army, Navy, and Air Force. The homosexualists’ and liberals’ real aim is to turn us, militarily speaking, into the equivalent of the Netherlands.