When Dad is a Masturbator
January 18, 2012
JAMES P. writes:
In this previous post, Michael D. wrote, apropos of donation to sperm banks,
Only a man who loathes himself, lacks dignity and self respect would consider doing such a thing, abandoning responsibility for any unknown children he sires with women who mean nothing to him… I cannot imagine the impact on a child when he learns that he was not intentionally conceived in love between his parents, but that his pathetic father was a compulsive masturbator who never even met his mother.
At the time, I thought his comments were unduly harsh. Yet here in the Daily Mail, we read about a man who claims he has never had sex with a woman, but has fathered 14 children as a sperm donor. He is indeed a totally pathetic compulsive masturbator without any dignity or self-respect! In his own words,
‘I coined this term “donor sexual” and I’ll explain it means 100 per cent of my sexual energy is for producing sperm for childless couples to have babies. So I don’t have other activity outside of that.’
The story relates that on Anderson Cooper, this creature met a child that he “fathered” for a lesbian couple. Incidentally, the man supposedly runs a “private, unregulated sperm bank” and stars in amateur porn videos. Just wait until his children grow up and find out all this fascinating information about their father!
I hope every aspect of this revolting tale is false, but if not, he is the poster boy for the soullessness and inhumanity of the anonymous sperm donor.
Laura writes:
The U.S. government is seeking to fine Trent Arsenault because he refused to take the mandated health tests, not because he was involved in child abuse. It is otherwise legal in the United States to father children in this barbaric and inhumane way. Arsenault claims to be helping out “childless” couples. These couples are “childless” by choice.
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James P.—I’m glad you agree with me. As a man, reading The Daily Mail story breaks my heart. It is precisely the situation I feared when I wrote my earlier comment a few months ago. A man who might have enjoyed a happy life and family in other circumstances has abjectly surrendered.
At some time Trent Arsenault sadly believed lies he told himself that he can never hope to have a girlfriend, then he indulged in pity, and pity soon turned into self-loathing. This reinforced his low self-esteem; then the destructive cycle went around again and again. So he probably resorted to compulsive masturbation initially as a means of escape. The associated feelings of guilt and shame fed into the self-pity. This is how the devil tricked him into believing an irrational lie about himself and the manifestations are destroying his life.
Initially after reading the article in The Daily Mail I could not comprehend why Arsenault would go public with his disgraceful situation. His desire to preserve a lucrative source of income is understandable, but there’s no need to announce to Anderson Cooper and the whole world that he is a 36-year-old virgin, compulsive masturbator and surrogate father in order to challenge a government ruling! Surely people would openly ridicule and despise such a person, and spare a thought for his poor parents? I think there is more to it. He is trapped and unable to arrest the cycle of destruction. The devil threw him a bone, convincing him to be proud of his perverse achievement in siring so many children; many more in fact than most men, especially the type of men he secretly envies the most. Those who have loving and attractive women on their arms. It drives him to continue the self-condemning behaviour.
The more I read about him, the more sickened I became. He is utterly without remorse. His “amateur porn” videos are posted on the Internet for all to see. Apparently these depraved videos show him masturbating into a cup. He claims that having these videos and the knowledge that people can watch him, turns him on and fuels his sex drive to be “donor sexual.”
Arsenault doesn’t realize that broadcasting his revolting behavior has nailed shut the door of opportunity once and for all—it is now certain he will never meet, date, romance, marry or father children with a woman. He is condemned to loneliness and misery. How long will it be before he realises his self-inflicted thankless tragedy comes without a prize? The devil has inspired him to wreck his life and take down society too.
He masturbates so that vile lesbians can conceive children who will be forever ashamed of their biological father. I am thankful that Anderson Cooper and The Daily Mail publicised this. Most men and women watching will be utterly disgusted and it may help to harden public attitudes against sperm donors, to stigmatise this behaviour as deviant and outside the boundaries of respectable society.
