Feminism Destroys Character
April 18, 2015
DANIEL writes:
What is a man to do about modern women? I am a man in my mid-twenties that merely wants to have a family and a good wife. I have success with women but the more successful I am the more hopeless a marriage relationship seems to be. Women garner too much power from their sexuality to be chaste and they tend to lie about or downplay their sexual pasts. Social media sites spoil them from a young age, making it even more difficult to keep a woman’s interest without being disgusting. Beyond this, there seems to be no social limitations on women for even their own good–they tend to want to jump from one man to the next and “have fun.” Cheating on boyfriends, husbands and fiancés is routine.
So-called “Christian” women are just as bad as any other group–they hide their past when it is convenient. I have seen a close friend of mine get suckered into a marriage he believed was with a chaste women, only to find out otherwise. Even a cursory view of the “Catholic” Answers forum will confirm that the divorce craze isn’t just a problem for the explicitly godless. Women seem to be looking for every excuse these days from boredom to the fact that they marry men they are not attracted to to begin with (after the partying fizzles out, of course).
Most men in the know find it verboten to discuss anything about women and their little selection strategy or even to place any blame on women for their actions in general. I am routinely lambasted for mentioning the modern woman’s voting tendencies, sexual selection strategy, proclivity to cease having sex with her husband (and attempts to turn everyone against him as an abusive, porn-addicted cheater), enthusiasm for divorce, justification for baby murder and overall family/society ruining schemes. Apparently trying to identify problems and propose solutions is “hateful”–that and men are at fault for women’s choices.
Even close female friends and family members are part of the problem: so many marriages have been ruined or will be ruined due to their choices. I have been branded as a sinful man without the love of God for hate of baby murder, the child abuse that is divorce and not wanting to marry a problem at the expense of myself and my children. It is a terrible thing to imagine a daughter of mine coming into contact with this corrupting force but these women are ubiquitous.
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Laura writes:
It goes without saying to regular readers that feminism destroys the character of men too. Or rather it is the product of destroyed character. Men and women are too interdependent for one to fall without the other.
Feminism is, in part, the result of male defection.
The women Daniel mentions are busy trying to be both men and women. Sexual freedom is phony compensation for the economic autonomy that atomistic modern society has thrust upon them and they certainly didn’t come up with the idea on their own. Sexual liberation is a masterful plan for the political domination of women, not the freedom it is touted to be at all as it wrests from women their main sphere of influence. The fact that many women celebrate this condition does not diminish the high price they pay in sacrificing their womanhood. A river of tears runs through our culture. Women suffer intensely from all the things you mention. They have never been more oppressed, no matter how elated they may be.
This not a battle of the sexes, but a battle of good and evil in which both the sexes are enlisted. There is nothing the devil hates more than sexual differentiation. From it comes life and new recruits for the good angels. Daniel, you are not owed a wife or a family. You are only owed this opportunity to use the grace God has given you without your ever meriting it to defend justice and social order even if it means personal unhappiness. I hope you will continue to show your hand and speak up. I hope you will have compassion on the women who are misled and help them understand. You just might find a good wife among those sinners someday. Don’t give in to temptations to despair or discouragement. You are taking part in a beautiful adventure.
Laura adds:
I also recommend that Daniel pray the Rosary every single day. Consecrating ourselves to Christ through Mary, the Mediatrix, is the surest way to defeat feminism and all the ills of our time. Feminism is anti-Mary.
