Hardships of the Single Life, cont.
PAUL A. writes:
I was reading through some of your older posts, when I came across “The Hardships of the Single Life.” This article really hit a chord with me, because I have thought a lot about this subject in the last few years. I’m a victim of my own poor choices. I have never really settled down somewhere, never invested in relationships, and have always lived alone, even in preference to having a roommate or two. Now I live in a smaller town in California and own my own business. This is when the solitary nature of my existence really sunk in.
I live far away from old friends and family, and have no roots in the area in which I live. I have my own business, or rather my own job, as a repairman. So I do my work all day, driving from location to location. It is not uncommon for me to speak to no one during the course of the day except customers. I have no co-workers, and no option to network through them. I have no family near, and no option to network through them. No girlfriend or wife, etc.
After work, I come home and do the paperwork side of the job: write invoices, order materials, work on taxes, insurance, etc. It is quite a load. And, to the point of your article, I have to do everything for the household as well. If the dog or cat gets fed, I have to do it. All the shopping, I have to do. All the cooking, cleaning, and yard work is my responsibility. I have to maintain the cars. If something is going to get done, I have to do it. (more…)



