A Report on Family in America’s Cities

 

JESSE POWELL writes: 

The focus of this report is the child population in America’s 25 largest cities. The Married Families Ratio (MFR), the proportion of all families with own children under 18 headed by a married couple, fell for all racial groups from 2000 to 2010. In proportional terms it fell the least among Asians, moderately among whites, and the most for blacks and Hispanics. This is exactly what one would expect according to the rule that family breakdown accelerates as it becomes more severe. 

Every one of these cities has fewer white children than the national average and in ten of the 25 cities, fewer than one out of five children are white.

Also given, for the years 2000 and 2010 according to race, is the Married Parents Ratio (MPR), the proportion of all own children under 18 whom live with married parents. The Married Parents Ratio is from the child’s point of view while the Married Families Ratio is from the household’s point of view. The reason why the Married Parents Ratio tends to be a bit higher than the Married Families Ratio is because married couples with children tend to have more children on average than single parents do. 

The below table gives the proportion of the total population that was under 18 in the United States in 2000 and 2010 as well as the racial composition of the child population and the Married Parents Ratio and the Married Families Ratio by race for 2000 and 2010.  (more…)

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Chastity and Chaz

 

BRITTANY WRITES:

You have to understand, people like Chaz Bono really believe that they are the opposite sex. They are not doing this to annoy or anger anybody. They really believe that they are not the right sex. I do not know about you but I can’t imagine constantly thinking that I am the opposite sex. (more…)

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A Few Words on ‘Weel-Plac’d Love”

  

EPISTLE TO A YOUNG FRIEND

                             — Robert Burns (1786) 

I Lang hae thought, my youthfu’ friend,
A something to have sent you,
Tho’ it should serve nae ither end
Than just a kind memento:
But how the subject-theme may gang,
Let time and chance determine;
Perhaps it may turn out a sang:
Perhaps turn out a sermon. (more…)

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When the Young Listen to the Young

 

ELENA writes:

I want to endorse your comment about kids benefiting from interaction with people a little older than they are, who seem interesting and grown-up without being, you know, parents (ugh!). (more…)

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On Activities for Boys

 

APROPOS of the discussion here on homeschooling, I recommend this essay by William C. Michael, director of the Classical Liberal Arts Academy for homeschoolers. He writes:

Working in education and being a father of 5 young boys, I face the same questions any time someone learns that I live on a farm and teach my own children at home:

“Do your kids play video games?”

“Do your kids watch TV?”

“Do you kids play sports?”

My answer: “No, they don’t.” (more…)

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Study of a Leon Tree, Lord Frederick Leighton (1859)
Study of a Lemon Tree, Lord Frederick Leighton (1859)

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From an SAT Tutor

 

INEZ writes:

I just wanted to add my experiences, as a private SAT prep teacher, to the discussion about the SAT scores. The SAT is not a valuable test; by this I mean the score a student receives on it does not correlate strongly with any substantial measurement of success or intelligence. (more…)

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Every Home is a School

 

GREG JINKERSON writes:

My wife and I have a baby boy so far, with hopes of having several more kids. She is a full-time mom. I am absolutely bound and determined to keep our children out of state schools, and my wife is to a great extent in agreement with me. However, she is having doubts and anxieties about her ability to educate our kids herself. I have told her my opinion: that simply by virtue of being protected from statist brainwashing and kept in our family orbit, our children will wind up perfectly civilized, especially in comparison with what government schools are turning out. (more…)

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Some Basic Facts on the SAT

 

YOU MAY have heard that American college students are doing worse on the SATs, but a look at the official breakdown of scores according to race reveals that whites, who represent the majority of test-takers, are doing better in math than they were in the early 70’s, when scores overall were at their highest, and are doing only marginally worse in reading scores. (more…)

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The Postmodern Wedding Artiste

 

JOHN MICHAEL COOPER is the wedding photographer who coined the term “trash the dress” and set off a “new creative, artistic, movement in the world of wedding photography” with his portraits of a bride in a flaming wedding gown. Instead of “trash the dress,” I suggest “trash the photographer” – and every other purveyor of the modern, highly-stylized, narcissistic, mind-blowingly expensive wedding, which turns couples into mock celebrities or even porn stars for a day. Wedding photographers, with some notable exceptions, are the used car salesmen of modern romance.

Here is Cooper responding to remarks that his work is perverse and sickening. This vulgar philistine is actually considered a bright light in the world of commercial photography: (more…)

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The Myth of the “Child-Focused Divorce”

 

IN THIS recent post, I discussed a piece in the Wall Street Journal advocating “child-focused divorce,” which is sort of like “homeowner-focused burglary.” I said that any couple capable of following Elizabeth Bernstein’s advice should be capable of staying married. In this excellent letter to the editor, a reader of the WSJ makes the same point:

In “the Child-Focused Divorce” (Personal Journal, Sept. 6) you imagine a world where divorced parents cooperate with an abundance of civility, mutual respect and charity, and you offer advice from experts who liken raising children of divorce to a kind of “business venture.” You encourage attention to details, planning, coordination and even a kind of professional respect between the parents.

As a child of divorce, I found this almost laughable. (more…)

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Start Small

  RESPONDING to recent posts here about ugly architecture, Daniel H., at his blog Out of Sleep, advises individuals to cultivate resistance in small ways.

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Catholic German Bishop Welcomes Mosques

 

DAN, in a note to Lawrence Auster, writes:

To see how far suicidal liberalism has crept into the clerical establishment of the Catholic Church one only need to review the recent statements of a German bishop praising the construction of mosques in Germany:

The Hamburg auxiliary bishop Hans-Jochen Jaschke has called for the construction of new mosques in Germany. At the same time he called on Christians symbolically to support the opening of such buildings. “I think that it is conceivable that Christians will give Muslims presents at the opening of a new mosque — as a sign of sympathy, good neighbourliness and religious solidarity,” said the spokesperson for the German Bishop’s conference for interfaith dialogue as reported in Hamburg’s daily paper, Die Welt. (more…)

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More on Trashing Wedding Gowns

 

BRIAN writes:

From your posts on “trash-the-dress,” you obviously don’t understand what it’s all about.

Firstly, there are two totally different types of trash-the-dress photoshoots.

The most common one has the intention of taking beautiful photos of the bride (and sometimes the groom as well) away from the overly sterile traditional settings. Some of these photographs are truly beautiful and far from being anti-traditional actually hark back to very old styles of photography. These may or may not include stunning water scenes. In many cases the beauty of the bride is emphasized by the use of contrasting backgrounds, such as an industrial type background. In nearly all these cases, the dress is not truly “trashed” and can be dry cleaned. (more…)

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When Is Criticism of Jews Anti-Semitic?

 

IS it possible to draw a clear line between modern anti-Semitism and reasonable criticism of Jewish leftism? In this excellent 2005 piece, Lawrence Auster wrote:

It is essential to distinguish between anti-Semitic attacks on Jews and legitimate, rational criticisms of Jews. For example, to say that many Jews fear some fictional white evangelical anti-Semitism more than they fear Islamic anti-Semitism, and to say that this belief is both wrong in itself and harmful to society, as Stephen Steinlight has argued, and I expanded on the argument, is a legitimate criticism. It does not demonize Jews as Jews. (more…)

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Australia Offers New Passport

 

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THE AUSTRALIAN government announced today that passports will be changed to offer three gender options: male, female and indeterminate.

Here’s my question.

Given that being of “indeterminate” sex is purely wishful thinking, why don’t passports add more options? What if you consider yourself an angel? Or a goddess? (more…)

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When Weddings are Theater

 
A bride and groom on their special day
A bride and groom on their special day

JEANETTE V., who is a professional photographer, writes:

Regarding the wedding dress, it is the “fashion” these days to do a “trash the dress” shoot after the wedding. I suppose a bride will ask me eventually to photograph her doing this to her dress. I don’t get it, I took great care to save my dress for my future daughter.

Another fad is the “cake smash,” where a child is photographed destroying his first birthday cake. (more…)

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