“On the Necessity of Educating Children”

HERE ARE timely thoughts on this midsummer day dedicated for centuries with prayer and festivity to the birth of St. John the Baptist, that most extraordinary child, conceived by a seemingly barren, older couple, a child who retired early in life to the lonely desert, feeding on honey and locusts, later going out into the world to play his role as the “Precursor,” one of history’s most important prophets, preachers and martyrs. Fr. Leonard Goffine explains why children should be prepared by their parents not only for happiness, success and likeableness, but for holiness, with all the sacrifices and struggle for understanding that entails. Today’s parents, in a way, must feed on honey and locusts to bring this miracle about. From Fr. Goffine:
Whence does it come that so many parents are deceived in the expectations they entertained in regard to their children, that their advancing youth, notwithstanding all the education bestowed upon it, becomes more and more disorderly and impious? It is because parents so seldom observe that which is written of the young Tobias: From his infancy he (his father) taught him to fear God, and to abstain from all sin; (Tob. i. 10.) because they regard not the apostle’s admonition: And you fathers, bring up your children in the discipline and correction of the Lord; (Eph vi. 4.) because they forget that every child is like a young tree that must be carefully guarded, straightened, bound to a post, trimmed and protected against insects, wind and frost; because they remember no longer the wise man’s counsel: Instruct thy children, and bow down their necks from their childhood, (Ecclus. vii. 25.) and, thou shalt beat thy child with a rod, and deliver his soul from hell; (Prov. xxiii. 14.) because they pay no attention to the words: The child that is left to his own will, bringeth his mother to shame, (Prov. xxix. I5.) and, he that loveth his son, frequently chastiseth him, that he may rejoice in his latter end, and not grope after the doors of his neighbors, (Ecclus. xxx. 1.) that is, for protection, consolation and help against the rebellious child. (more…)


