And, a Northerner Says New York May Yet be Conquered
SEBASTIAN C. writes:
I thought you and your readers would be interested in this rather sad piece that recently appeared in New York magazine discussing the effects of online pornography on men and women across America.
I live and date in New York (I’m divorced, mid-thirties) but flatter myself that financial security and the exclusivity it brings has shielded me from many of these horrors, though not all. There is so much wrong with what the article reveals without even reaching the main points regarding pornography: the casualness of the relations between the sexes, the androgyny, the women’s mindset regarding sex, the sheer vulgarity and ugly aesthetic of it all. And then we come to the virtual lives people, especially men, are living in lieu of physical reality. Men have always looked at “girlie magazines” – nothing wrong with that, but this is now a difference of kind. They seem to be taking refuge from something in a virtual Matrix. It’s as if the electricity and computer have replaced their spinal column. (more…)