College Students Demand Respect
Does Your Professor Respect You?
— Richard Cocks
Interestingly, when I googled this question the responses I found involved advising students how to address respectful emails to their professors. One response took the intuitively plausible line that since in emailing your professor you are likely to be asking for something, you should do so politely. However, on teaching evaluation forms, the question is as asked, although the exact wording may differ.
To respect someone is to show them the appropriate degree of social honor. If a child goes to see the high school principal, I would like to imagine that a parent might hope that the child was properly respectful, not; ‘I hope the principal showed you respect.’ Imagine a student approaching a karate or kung fu master, asking to be instructed, and then demanding that the teacher respect him. Or, better yet, a new army cadet telling his sergeant major that he is hoping to be treated with all the respect he deserves. What a malicious gleam in the eye that sergeant major could be expected to have and what respect the new recruit would be obliged to show the toilets with his toothbrush. (more…)







