ALL of civilization depends on the father. As goes the father, so goes society. When fatherhood as an institution is strong, when a man governs his commonwealth in obedience and submission to God, order radiates throughout society.

“Power, like nature, abhors a vacuum,” writes Fr. Chad Ripperger. “Either the man will be head of the house or the wife will; it is that simple.”

Today, women rule not just their homes but the world. The pop singer Beyoncé is right: Women rule the world. They rule the world with their passions. They rule the world with their mounting unhappiness. They rule the world with their frustration and its accompanying irrationality. They sometimes rule like those capricious and unpredictable goddesses of the ancient world who alternated between wrath and seduction.

They rule because men have let them. Men have progressively denied their authority until it is all but gone.

A man is not in essence superior to a woman. But by the accidental conditions of nature, he is placed in loving authority over her. At his website Sensuus Traditionis, Fr. Ripperger’s essay “Parental Roles and Leadership” examines the issue of paternal authority. The essay is so excellent and so thorough in its exploration of the subtleties and complexities of the issue that I offer this lengthy quote:

If a wife refuses to submit to the authority of her husband, she loses the spiritual protection and providence of her husband. Whatever rises against an order or authority is deprived of that order and the principle of order. (more…)

  EXPATRIOT writes: Here is a composition by one of my students, a 19-year-old Japanese girl. I think it’s one of the most beautiful things I’ve ever read, and I offer it here without comment, since it speaks for itself: My future dream is to be a mother. Since I was a little girl, I have been dreaming of becoming one. I would like to have a husband who likes children, and someone who would take care of the children with me. I wouldn’t want someone who is aggressive or violent. I want my children to be honest, active, and loving. I want to raise them with lots and lots of love. I want to take them to zoos and amusement parks. From my experience I would love to take my children to my parents’ house. I remember from my childhood that visiting my grandparents was fun. I like the road to my grandparents’ house, and I also liked staying the night at their house. My mother’s parents are living with my cousin’s family, so it is a big family. I think they would have a nice time at my parents’ house, like I used to because my parents are fun people. My father loves telling jokes, and playing sports. I bet he would try to teach them golfing because he loves golfing. My mother is very nice and loving. She cooks very well, and she also bakes. Her cheesecakes are…

BRETT writes:

You got me thinking about what types of food are popular in modern times. While I think canned food is emblematic of the era, I also noted that in addition to your favorite (pizza) there are sandwiches, the burrito, the salad and the wrap. These are all popular because, like modernity itself, they are the same mundane experience dressed up as variety. (more…)

HOWARD SUTHERLAND writes:

The top story at Rorate Caeli yesterday was depressing and another example of how the liberalism of Vatican II has indeed let the smoke of Satan into Christian sanctuaries: Italian prelates’ advocating the building of an “official” (and no doubt enormous) mosque for the “Moslems of Milan.” (more…)

NO ONE is more immune from criticism in America than the black man. It’s true that when he is caught in the actual commission of a crime he is held to account for his actions as an individual, but not as part of a larger group. Otherwise, he can live a life of hedonism, selfishness and ingratitude without risking his image. The black man is guilty of only his own most outrageous crimes. While the white man is responsible for the sins of all white men, the black man’s sins are his alone, but even then he is suspected of being a victim. There are neighborhoods of hundreds of black families where there may be as few as half a dozen married men. We are to believe that the black man, due to the ravages of slavery, was forced to hand over support and care of his children to the government and the overworked black woman, who is his sex slave and economic drudge.

Still, despite the behavior of his peers, the black man is considered worthy of fame and adulation in the athletic world. (more…)

IN AN EXCELLENT piece at City Journal, Heather Mac Donald comments on two recent items in the news: feminist outrage over all-male special-operations combat forces and a federal civil rights complaint by female students at Yale who say they have been denied an equal education by raunchy campus jokes.

Mac Donald points to the glaring contradiction of women claiming, on the one hand, that they can be toughened, elite warriors and, on the other, that they cannot function in life if they are the butt of offensive jokes. Mac Donald writes:

Not only has the rise of women to positions of power and control in American society not dented feminist irrationality, it seems to have exacerbated that irrationality.

Mac Donald looks at recent commentary in The Washington Post by Anna Holmes protesting the exclusion of women from the Navy SEALs even though few if any women could physically qualify for the SEALs. Very few men even qualify. The SEALs, it’s worth noting, are trained to withstand torture. How is it possible for women today to withstand torture when the slightest criticism of their attire or behavior causes them to break down and take to the streets?

The complaint by the women at Yale came after frat pledges walked through the freshman quad crudely chanting, “No means yes, and yes means anal.” (Don’t you hope your children attend Yale someday?) One would think some of the most intelligent female undergraduates in the free world would be capable of defending themselves against this base behavior with words of their own. For the Yale students, however, the jokes did nothing less than harm their lifelong opportunities, even in a world of institutionalized favoritism for women. A full-blown civil rights case was warranted.

MacDonald writes: 

To the civil rights complainants … the [frat] incident and Yale’s allegedly inadequate response to it “precludes women from having the same equal opportunity to the Yale education as their male counterparts,” in the words of signatory Hannah Zeavin. (more…)

  FROM 2000 to 2010, the number of U.S. households with children headed by unmarried women rose by 18 percent, according to the latest Census Bureau figures. Also, married couples constitute less than half of all households for the first time in American history. In 1950, 78 percent of households included married couples. New Census figures on the family will be officially released today. They document the rise of matriarchy and its consequences for children and society.   According to a New York Times report on the figures: "just a fifth of households were traditional families — married couples with children — down from about a quarter a decade ago, and from 43 percent in 1950, as the iconic image of the American family continues to break apart."

  NO CREATURE expresses the naked need of the young quite like the baby bird. At this time of year, in the springtime, the nestling and his siblings create an entire subculture of anarchy, unrest and desperation. In his twiggy, secretive nest, with his beak agape, waiting for the bug or the worm to drop, he is pure ego. He is all demand. He is hunger. He is greed. He is dire poverty. He expects nothing less than constant, unequivocal, unhestitating attention. Human parents find here a worthwhile comparison. Things could be worse. The parent bird wings back and forth to the nest, communicating strategy to his spouse and retrieving every available form of food, and there is never enough. Even when he approaches with a fat, pinned, wriggling cricket, the screeches and squawks of reproach echo through the neighborhood. "That's all!? That's it!?" The children scold with fury. The parental bird is inadequate. Love is definitely not enough. He finds a few moments of rest, when the nestlings sleep against their own best interests, but that is not time to recover. The day's expenditure of energy is never recouped. He will die exhausted, not old. If not for his will and determination to see the species live, he might have survived for 20, maybe 30 years. Some young nestlings chirp constantly. Others pose silent and accusingly, their empty gullets pointed toward the skies. 'See this?" they say. "This is what you did to me. Hunger. I am dying." Springtime brings new life and rejuvenation. For the parent bird, it…

THIS IS one of many astounding and horrifying Associated Press photos, found here, of the destruction from this week’s tornados in the Midwest. This man was driving his truck when it was swept off a road in El Reno, Oklahoma. (more…)

THE LATEST census figures from India show there are 7.1 million fewer girls than boys under the age of six. The disparity is caused by sex-selective abortion. A new public health report about the rise of sex-selective abortion of girls in India refers to the relative affluence and education of the women having the abortions. What the news accounts fail to mention is that the phenomenon accompanies a rise in feminism in the country.

Since feminism inhibits the commitment to motherhood in general and deflects the energies and focus of women toward money-making activity, it logically follows that it makes the abortion of girls more likely in a culture in which girls are considered more costly to the family. (more…)

THE BABY in modern society is a canvas on which the parent is free to paint his mischievous, wholly self-absorbed dreams. Modern liberals are prone, perhaps more than any other group in human history, to thinking babies remain babies forever.

The wildly sensational news story about a Toronto couple who have decided to conceal the sex of their baby so that he or she is not affected by conventional expectations is one example of this trend. Here are parents whose imaginations regarding their offspring are dwarfed by the present moment and radical egocentricity. They have named the baby Storm and maybe that’s exactly what he’ll be. A storm instead of a boy or a girl. 

Another example is this account of two lesbians who became mothers together at the same time, having artificially conceived their children with the same male donor. The story is a mind-blowing glimpse into the lesbian bourgeoisie and its staggering pretensions.

In both these cases, the babies won’t be babies forever. Someday they too will speak.

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  The Summer Day By Mary Oliver Who made the world? Who made the swan, and the black bear? Who made the grasshopper? This grasshopper, I mean- the one who has flung herself out of the grass, the one who is eating sugar out of my hand, who is moving her jaws back and forth instead of up and down- who is gazing around with her enormous and complicated eyes. Now she lifts her pale forearms and thoroughly washes her face. Now she snaps her wings open, and floats away. I don't know exactly what a prayer is. I do know how to pay attention, how to fall down into the grass, how to kneel down in the grass, how to be idle and blessed, how to stroll through the fields, which is what I have been doing all day. Tell me, what else should I have done? Doesn't everything die at last, and too soon? Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?

IN A previous entry, a male reader boasted of eating a cicada with beer. Judging from his description, this was mainly bravado, not a civilized way to consume this large, sap-feeding insect. Here a reader offers her own intriguing recipe.

A Grateful Reader writes:

A lady never behaves like a “real man.” The lady of the kitchen ventures out at dawn, when the cicadas are emerging from their shells, all white and soft with red eyes. As they bend backwards waiting for their wings to dry, she plucks several dozen from their shells and stores them in the freezer until dinnertime. As an appetizer for the main meal of the day, she gently fries them with a bit of olive oil and garlic and salt. All the family enjoy the tasty and nutritious treat. When eaten raw, these dainty creatures are appropriate on fast days; indeed, John the Baptist probably ate his locusts fresh from their shells in the morning, without the benefit of cooking. Bon Appetit.

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  IT APPARENTLY has escaped the notice of "slut walkers" that one of the most powerful men in the world has just been arrested and has been charged with assaulting a hotel maid. The contrast to their message is perhaps too glaring for the protesters. Despite their claim that women are frequently blamed for rape, the truth is that America has historically been highly intolerant of sexual assault. Another famous French man took note of this many years ago. In his 1835 book Democracy in America, Alexis de Tocqueville wrote: No other crime is judged with the same inexorable severity by public opinion.... as Americans think nothing more precious than a woman's honor and nothing deserving more respect than her freedom; they think no punishment too severe for those who take both against her will.

IN THIS ENTRY, a reader commented on the Christian expression, “we are all sinners.” She wrote:

Non-Christians get their hackles up when they hear this, because the word “sin” is loaded. People don’t understand what is really meant: that we are sinners not because we sin, but we sin because we are sinners. We are imperfect. This needs to be explained better. If I had not by chance heard this on a Christian TV programme, I would still protest the statement that “all people are sinners.” No one wants to think he or she goes around deliberately doing evil day in and day out. (more…)

THE REFLECTIONS by reader and pizza deliveryman Ben Jolly on how he learned manners as a child during rare meals out in elegant restaurants reminded me of the 1911 essay “The Decay of Manners” by the Southern-born writer and lawyer Thomas Nelson Page. The essay appeared in The Century Illustrated magazine. Page’s complaints about boorish behavior seem positively quaint today. Some of his wisest observations concern the role of women in defending civility. He wrote:

This is the crux of the whole question. Among all civilized peoples woman is the custodian of good manners. She places the stamp on the currency which gives it value in the public mind, and if she will not assert her royal prerogative it will soon become debased. (more…)

ROSE writes:

 I haven’t been keeping up with my blogs lately because of the many wild animals I’m taking care of, but recently I’ve been thinking of you daily. You see, a few weeks ago the 13-year cicadas emerged, many from my very backyard. [Cicadas were discussed previously here, here and here.] It’s half an acre and potentially could have contained 500,000 of them. There are thousands of tiny holes everywhere and it’s blanketed with cicada shells while the gigantic red-eyed bug monsters swoop down at you from the air.

And the noise… I told you they’re usually loud in the summer but this year the paper reports that people have been calling the police to find out if a big construction project or military exercises are
going on. They’re like little vuvuzelas made by God.

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